What to do about a guy that doesnt want to let me go?

DUMP him and if u cant find a way to do it then deal with it! if u feel u deserve better and u dont think theres a future then leave him.... dont feel bad for a guy like that. o and its not just white people that wont hire a ghetto looking person any successful business owner black white green or blue wont hire someone that represents their business in a bad way...